8 Early Signs of Control/Abuse

1. Calling and texting excessively and wanting to know where you are all the time. Getting angry, if you don't respond. 

2. Disliking all your family and friends and discouraging you from spending time with the.

3. Checking your phone and going through your social media without your knowledge and permission. 

4. Hot and cold behavior. You don't know what to expect from them. They're mean to you one moment, and caring in the next. 

5. Constantly changing plans you already made (where you go, what you eat, etc.), and trying to make you believe they know what's best for you or know you better than yourself. 

6. Staring or glaring to intimidate. 

7. Throwing out breaking your personal belongings. 

8. Coaxing or pressuring you to make financial decisions you don't feel ready to make.