Hard Pills To Swallow

1. You are responsible for your own happiness and joy, others just add onto it. They shouldn't be the root cause of your happiness, it's you. Give the energy to yourself that you often give out to others to get happiness. 

2. You don't owe anything at all to anyone. This is somewhat a sweet pill for you, because when you owe nothing to the people, you have no faces to make appeal to. You become the leader, you take charge of your life. 

3. Selling yourself short will get you no further than you really are, you're staying in the pitty place you've been calling home aka comfort zone. 

4. No one can think like you, you have to communicate, this aligns with the 3rd point. When you communicate, you have a chance if influence people, don't just be the follower of the group, go out and speak up. 

5. Being in love with yourself first is the ONLY way you can get love from others at all.